When your 6th grader just chooses NOT to try

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Thank you Ryan! Just curious to what happens to unschoolers in the future…graduate?? GED??

In TX they graduate like everyone else. But depends on your state…but it’s the same as homeschoolers…if you have requirements to something to turn in then you just adapt to your needs.

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I am so sorry you are going through this. :frowning: I know you are doing an online school? I know that my kids hated it. They didn’t want to try either. When I quit the online school I tried really hard to find curriculum that they would enjoy. It has taken a lot of work and a lot of false steps.

The K12 program was just too much - it wasn’t fun for anyone. Could it just be that he doesn’t like the curriculum? Could it just be too much?

If at all possible - try and make the curriculum your own. Skip things that you can skip. Don’t try to do everything in the lesson. (Dare I say: Don’t worry about their ā€œassessments?ā€) Or even, find out what is on the assessment - and teach him that in his own way. A way he enjoys.

(For example: (this is for my 1st grader but it’s just an example lol so bear with me :slight_smile: ) In science he has to know what the three states of matter are: solid, liquid, gas. He has to know what causes them to change the state of matter (hot or cold) OK, so instead of spending 1/2 an hour reading their online science lesson - I am going to walk around outside and inside and find examples of solids, liquids, and gases. Then we will do the experiment they have: changing ice-cubes to water, water to ice-cubes, and water to gas by boiling it. Done and done. He enjoyed science, he learned - but it wasn’t sitting on the computer all day.)

I know you said you didn’t want to stick with it forever… and so… find your own curriculum - one that he enjoys, and like was mentioned before… maybe unschooling would work best.

You’ll be in my thoughts! Best wishes!

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PS - I hated the online assessments: as I thought most were unfair. So, I tried to teach what they needed to know. And if my child didn’t understand what they were asking - I had no problem with helping them on the assessments. If I KNEW they knew the material - then I didn’t worry about the assessments as much. We also went to a more notebooking style - they created their own books for each unit. Again, - if they understood the material - I didn’t worry about the assessments as much. :slight_smile:

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Thank you :slight_smile: The online schooling is no different from the public school system…just different location :wink: He didn’t like school nor does he like it here at home. I’ve actually started looking into the ā€œunschoolingā€ approach…all the articles I’ve read so far describe my son to a ā€˜T’…scary…because I’m too into the system way :-/ I have a friend coming over Monday to do a lesson with him so she can get a feel for how he learns or if he might just happen to be an unschooling kind of learner…I can say now I could never do RADICAL unschooling…but perhaps some unschooling with a sprinkle of academics and REAL LIFE responsibility everyday!! I just told him today…you’re either going to work hard mentally(academics) or physically(real life stuff)…not just sit around :slight_smile: But still lots to think and consider…

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